So...the waiting is over, the event has come and gone... and after that party, I have to confess that I DID feel 40 the next morning ....eish!
Even if I didn't feel 40 on the Friday morning when I woke up, by Friday afternoon I certainly did. Thanks to the freaky weather. Its sods law, but we have had nothing but wall-to-wall glorious sunshine for the past...ooh forever...until Friday morning when we woke up to grey, cloudy skies. F-A-R-K! By 11 am it was chucking it down, and my hair would have been 100% grey, had I not been sitting in the hairdresser at the time having it cut and highlighted. I could not believe it.... anyhoo, the show must go on as they say... so I fetched the nippers from school, and dutifully went to the venue to drop off my decor and show them how I wanted it set up. When I arrived at said venue, it was drizzling and rather chilly. (Said like a true South African, cos it really was about 24 C still)
After half an hour, I looked up to blue sky....a glimmer of hope. And within 15 minutes it was blazing sunshine again! Relief, happy dances, chanting and praising followed, much to the amusement of the staff. The Juke box dude arrived whilst I was there and set up the Jukebox, lights and Mic.... and I started to feel just a little bit excited :) YAY!
I went home, dropped the kids, got my camera ready, got dressed... and off we set to my party - and what a gloriously beautiful evening it was. As soon as I arrived, a Strawberry Daiquiri was placed in my hand.... and my brain promptly left the building! Which is a HUGE shame cos it means that no photos were taken of the venue with all my bright decor! :( I am so angry with myself and so dissapointed... but well, all those who were there saw how gorgeous it was, and I have the (fuzzy) memory of how it looked. When I finally did get my head together, I tried to frantically scramble around and take a few shots, but - alas - it was too late as not only could I not get any decent shots for the sea of people, but my photography skills had departed along with my brain and I have NO decent shots :( But - I do have some fabulous drunken shots that showcase the fun that we had :)
To all who came... thank you so much for celebrating with me. For those that couldn't be there due to geographical or other reasons....sorry you missed it. And a very special BIG thank you to my wonderful friend Nicci...(and hubby Glen) who came all the way from 'Maritsburg to celebrate with me. Nix - that was so special, you have no idea how much it means to me. And it was fabulous to have the Hot Hobson Ladies partying together as only we can. Jax and Cols... the 2 hobsonites missing... we did miss you terribly, but managed to drown our sorrows with your quota of alcohol and party on regardless :)
Twas a good party... and the rain did come down again later...but it didnt dampen our spirits as we happily danced on into the night.
For those that couldnt make it, here is a copy of my speech:
40 - it's a BIG number....
Famous things turning 40 in 2012:
The space shuttle programme
The VW BEETLE
Atari video games
The CT scan
Cameron Diaz
Ben affleck
Alyssa Milano
Eminem
Gwynneth Paltrow
Jude Law
Ginger Spice
....and ME!
Wow - quite a vintage us 1972 babies are hmmm? Perhaps that's because all those years ago (40 - In case you're slow on the uptake) the world knew that us 1972 creatures would all turn 40 the year the world was going to end. That's right folks.... I turn 40 in the year of the Apocalypse. I'm not really sure what to make of that... Apart from the fact that according to previous theories, the world was going to end when the clock struck 12 in the year 2000. Aeroplanes were going to fall out the sky and all the computers and world clocks were going to implode and we were all going to die. Well look how that turned out? I can't help but wonder how the UK is preparing for this Apocalypse. You see - I was living in England for the whole Y2K fiasco, and it was serious man. We all had to submit every electrical equipment we owned so that it could be Y2K checked. If it passed, we were given a sticker to place on the item to say that it was Y2K safe. If it didn't , it was removed for "safe disposal" to prevent it from contributing to the big fireball that was surely to emerge after midnight on the 1st Jan 2000. I bet they didn't have that here in Africa. In fact - all those items declared unsafe by the European checks undoubtedly landed up on African shores, and are probably still in use today.
I've gone off the point a bit...but I'll just say that if the Mayans theory is to be believed ( who the heck are these Mayans anyway? I've travelled the world a lot.... And you know what I've never met? A Mayan!) but still - if there theory is to be believed, then how handy it is that I turn 40 this year. Because it means that I get to say a farewell and thank you speech, and throw a partay, for all the special people in my life, before we all die! And for me - that's important, because I'm quite a sentimental old fool and things like this are important to me.
When I reminisce about all the great people that have impacted my life and who are a part of my life, I realise how very blessed I am. Tonight I am surrounded by friends and family who are all special to me. Some have known me for many years - since school days, since University days... and some newer friends too. My sisters and my Mom,who had no choice in the matter, have known me since the day I arrived!
Unfortunately, due to Geography, there are some very special people who couldn't be here tonight - most notably, my sister Heather, and obviously my Dad couldn't get a pass- out from the big man upstairs, but I am in no doubt that he is here in spirit tonight.
To my 2 big sisters - thank you for all your love and support over the years. Without you, I would never turned out as cool as I am! I remember starting my 1st day of Std 6 ( That's gr 8 these days, but you all know what I mean).... And I wasn't scared. Nope.... I had 3 big sisters who had coached me on how to look cool in high school. So I marched into high school with my socks rolled down, my sleeves rolled up, my skirt finishing waaaay above my knee and an attitude so cool that if I breathed I turned the leaves frosty. And what did I get for it? A detention! On my 1st day of school. Thanks guys!
But seriously - the bond that the 4 of us share is so special that at times, it's overwhelming. And who do we have to thank for this? No - not Boland bank, but the person who gave birth to these 4 awesome creatures. My darling mom! Thank you Jayon for doing such an awesome job - and for not letting one of us kill each other during the growing years. You and Dad did a great job raising us - we all have such happy childhood memories. I hope I can do half the job with my 3. Love you x x
And last, but not least..... The man who made all my dreams come true! My better half, my children's daddy, my husbank Pete! My toy boy ;)
. I have no idea how I got so lucky as to find you and to be married to you. You really are the perfect husband and the perfect father. Thank you for always taking such good care of me and our children. I love you endlessly.
And that brings me to the end of my speech. There's not much left to say except: thank you for coming and if you don't have a good time, I'll have to kill you ;)
Please come and select your favorite songs here on The jukebox... They have everything here, so no excuses. And please all let your hair down and party.... And let's celebrate and welcome this new decade of mine. It's going to be awesome. I can feel it in my bones. Or maybe that's just the arthritis? ;)
And now.... all thats left to reveal are some photos....eeek! ( None of the fabulous venue, sadly)...but some very funny party ones. Here's a few to see... the rest are over on FB, so go take a nose over there x

The ONLY pics of my decor.... I went for a very BRIGHT colour scheme, but it looked FAB

Best friends since Primary school days... the fabulous Gaynor, now my daughters Godmother and my kids' tennis coach x

Best friends since 'varsity days... the gorgeous Linda and Nix.. Jax and Cols were sorely missed :(

My fabulous Hubby and I x x x Nippers safely tucked in bed

My lovely sister Fee and her hubby Brendon

My wonderful Mum and awesome big sister Liz.... Heather, you were so sorely missed :(

Me and Liz

My Bar-one Cheesecake birthday cake....to die for doll :)
And finally, one of le speech :)

And thats all... for some funny snaps, head on over to FB x
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